Whats love got to do with it

You know...

I think I have done it all wrong all my life.

You know this joke about women always waiting for a better train to come along and then missing out on nice experiences?

It is a lie! My experience is that we find someone, project our future on him and say MINE, I am done, lets have babies and live happily ever after.

The world changes though when you are not looking for a life partner to be forever happy with.

If you are just looking for 'love' and attention life gets a different color.

I put love between apostrophes because I start to seriously wonder what love is! You can not fall in love with someone within a few days can you? And surely love at first sight should be relabeled LUST at first sight right?

So.. if we got all that sorted out.. if love doesn't exist and all we experience in the beginning of a relationship is lust, why do we (women I think) then tend to stick to that one person immediately? At least that is what I have always done in the past.

I understand though, I think nature does that a bit in a 'find a man, procreate' sort of way.

And maybe that is where the difference is now, I have done my bit for nature, finished, got me the t-shirt and I am so not looking for longevity.

I now live according to the rule that what walks my path I will try. Mind you, trying can be in many different forms, mailing, dating, other activities I will not talk about to protect our smaller readers and things.

And I know that a few posts back I said something about how many mediocre men exist, I take it back, I actually ran into quite a few nice ones who all seem to be attracted by my 'I don't really want you always but just for fun' attitude.

It is a different ball game..

THIS was what they meant when they say play hard to get. From the moment I didn't want to be gotten (erhm is that English even!) I have been hunted, and it is so much fun!

So girls.. my advice.. let go of the idea that you are on the dating market for the goal you want to achieve, but look at it as an ongoing shopping spree where you know you want the first dress you saw but still go to 10 other shops to find something better, you can do it with clothes, why not with men!?

Disclaimer: Any anti male sentiment that can be derived from this post lives merely in your own imagination. I want the record to show I love men. And I love them to be hunters. Let the games begin.