Intentions

The following comment deserved a whole new entry I thought!!

This was one line from my diatribe from yesterday and the comments in black are from the most appreciated Edmond Dantes - the man who is responsible for the remark 'Tell her I miss her cleavage' instead of saying to a visiting friend 'tell her I said 'hi''

It says a lot about me of course that I find that by far the most hilarious remark so far this year.

Anyway, onto deeper places:

Nope.. for me LAT is the only way to go from now

But do you actually have to take up a fixed mental position on this?

Is it not better to keep an open mind...just take things as they come and judge any prospective relationship on it's own merits?

Sure, you are enjoying your independence at the moment (and an independent spirit is to be encouraged!) But if you meet the 'right' guy (rather than the so called 'dream' guy!) then you might feel like you want to share your independence a bit.

I don't believe that living with someone means you must lose your freedoms of thought, expression....and the guilty pleasures such as Big Brother ;-) Not as long as it's the right relationship and you are both willing to keep working at it. Though obviously some level of compromise is required at times....but hey, you can sacrifice X Factor surely? ;-)

Anyway, it's all hypothetical right now....all being well, you'll be on this rock for some time yet....why rush to final judgment?


Nothing is ever final in my life.. I think I have proved that!

So, let me ask you one question, how long and with how many people have you lived together? Apart from your parents of course?

:-)

yeah....

And... then maybe I should be clear to any other readers (not that I think there are any though) that I am about 20 years older than the public that reads this blog :-)

I don't want to smash any dreams for your future of course but in my experience adapting (and not watching xFactor are you mad!!) is becoming harder and harder the older I get!

My first relationship was easy (19-30), I didn't ever even think about things I coudn't do, it just wasn't an issue.. (mind you that could very well have to do with the fact that I didn't know who I was or what I wanted ;-)) - The second was a bit harder (30-38) but that was also due to his challenging characteristics, the third one (40-46) was easy again BUT the best one of all where it comes to living and sharing together was that one with myself (38-40) :-)

I will always go for love.. at least.. that is what I have done so far... but I am a bit tired of building up again after every relationship, lucky for me I stayed in the same house after relationship break up number 2 but I have redecorated a house on my own 3 times now and had to build it up from scratch because I so wanted this living together thing to work.

So..what is there against having your own pad, having your own life but still share whatever you do/achieve in that life with somebody else who has the same feeling? I am sure there must be men around as well who are happy with their own life and habitat but do miss that romantic interaction every now and then?

I think it has something really romantic to see each other only when you really want to.

My dream is to meet someone in the flat here.. that would be really great.. watch xFactor together, hop into bed and then decide if you want to sleep over or rather go back to your own bed because you need to get up early in the morning. I could SO see that work :)

Is my judgment final?

Hmm.. not sure.. for now, yes.

I believe life is all about intentions.. I believe that if you are not clear in your mind and spirit about what you want, no force can deliver (be it Eric, God, Universe or whoever you think is responsible)

So.. that is why I sent this into the world.. hoping to attract nice, strong men who love xFactor and their own pad as much as I love mine!